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Heal emotional wounds
Release unresolved pain and unconscious patterns so that your past no longer shapes your present or limits your future.
Clarify your identity
Settle who you are, what you stand for, and how you move through life, so your decisions flow from clarity rather than confusion.
Build financial vision
Develop a confident, values-driven relationship with money that supports the life you’re building not just the one you’re hoping for.
Fast-track your growth
The Cara Colectiv is a mentoring community for single women who want to live fully now. Too many women spend years waiting for marriage to begin their real life. The Cara Colectiv serves single women who are tired of putting life on hold and ready to say 'Yes' to becoming emotionally whole, spiritually grounded, financially intentional, and fully alive — whether or not you feel marriage is in your future. Grow alongside women who are intentional, honest, and committed to becoming whole, not just waiting for what’s next. This is a safe, faith-anchored space where you will be supported, stretched, and celebrated as you gain clarity, confidence, and momentum.
Meet your lead mentor
I’m Tomi Toluhi, a relationship architect, and for over thirty years I have worked closely with both single women and married couples as they navigate identity, healing, relationships, and life decisions. Over those years, I have seen a recurring pattern: women unintentionally putting their lives on hold while waiting—emotionally, spiritually, financially, and purposefully. I have also seen how powerful it is when women do the inner and practical work before life or marriage demands it. The Cara Colectiv was born from that insight. This movement exists because I know, from decades of experience, that wholeness changes everything—and the best time to build it is now. Join me and a team of trusted associate and guest mentors as we take life off neutral and journey together towards the life God has for you in this season.
Dr Angie Toluhi
Dr. Angelina Toluhi is a woman whose life reflects the alignment of faith, purpose, and impact. A committed follower of Christ since the age of 13, she has served in multiple ministry leadership roles and ran a blog titled "Conversations with Abba", translating biblical stories into modern contexts. Professionally, she is a maternal and child health researcher and Assistant Professor of Population Health Sciences at the University of Alabama at Birmingham, where her work advances health equity and shapes the next generation of leaders in her field.
Kika Ashanike
Kika Ashanike is an international speaker, writer, and founder of Pure Hearts UK, a Christian charity creating space for healing, wholeness, and leadership development. A former legal professional, she now leads LVC Trust, a leadership and consultancy platform helping individuals, faith networks, and organisations discover their calling and purpose. A media voice with her own devotional series on TBN UK and author of books spanning emotional healing, family dysfunction, and servant leadership, Kika brings professional credibility and deep spiritual conviction to every room she enters.
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The Cara Colectiv will draw in a carefully selected range of guest mentors — women who bring specialist expertise across our four key pillars of Emotional Health, Identity Clarity, Life Impact, and Financial Vision, as well as women whose stories of faith, courage, and intentional living have something powerful to deposit into this sisterhood. Each guest is chosen with intention, to expand what feels possible for you, to shorten your learning curve, and to remind you that the life you are building has already been walked out by someone who once stood exactly where you are.
Curriculum
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The Unpause Experience Replay
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The Unpause Experience March 2026 replay
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Take your life off neutral and join us on this journey.
The best years of your life are not in the future. They have already begun.